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9/6/2011

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Two weeks ago I walked into my regular Monday evening group where I get together with others to discuss the benefits of the practical use of spiritual principles in our everyday lives.  I sat down and before we got started one of the members asked me if we could talk?  I was reluctant since I never really liked this guy, he’s aggressive and I had a run in with him before.  Well, this time was no different.  He proceeded to loudly point out everything he believes is despicable about me.  Apparently this was brought on because he perceived that I had said something about him that was none of my business.  My initial urge was to become defensive but I resisted and did the best I could with the classic, “That was not my intention.  I’m sorry you feel that way.”  He marched off aggressively mumbling to himself.  I just wanted to get up and leave.  “Screw this place; I don’t need to subject myself to these people.  For what?” I thought.  But another, newer member witnessed the entire event and asked if I was OK.  I said, “Yeah, I’ve been through worse.”  Now I knew I had to remain put.  I needed to act like the adult not let this rattle me or worse tempt me to act childishly no matter how justified.  I stuck it out and so did the guy who was angry with me.  I participated positively when called on and fought off my thoughts of condemnation by reminding myself that his outburst defined him more than it did me.  This did little to change my feelings toward him, but at least prevented me from doing or saying something I would regret later.  When the meeting was over I still smarted and was justifying why I will never come back again.  But I knew better, I can’t win like this.  No matter how many people like me and may agree with me when I bring this guy up and give my description of what happened, it will not bring me peace.  Neither would my repeating the thought in my head of how, “I wish this guy would finally get the trouble he’s looking for so he’d be taken out once and for all.”  I knew the only thing that would work, no matter how contrary to what I may feel, would be for me to send him thoughts of love.  Reminding myself that he’s a scared soul that just wants to feel safe and loved.

So that evening I began.  Every time I thought of this guy I sent him love.  I’d see him in my mind’s eye smiling, happy, feeling loved and safe.  It wasn’t easy, but a lot more relaxing than coming up with malicious thoughts of getting even.  That evening before bed I was reading a book and this jumped off the page.

“Be absolutely undisturbed by injustice and send good-will to all concerned.  ‘My good-will is a strong tower round me.  I now transmute enemies into friends, all inharmony into harmony, all injustice into justice.’ You will be amazed at the working of the law.”

Coincidence?  I chose to see it as divine guidance, reinforcing the idea that I was on the right track, so it became my goal.  In the days ahead I continued; whenever he came up in my mind and the urge to criticize him or wish him gone for good, I steered my thoughts toward love, for him to receive all the good I would want for myself.

A week went by and because of a previously scheduled speaking engagement I missed the following Monday’s get together.  So last night was my first time back since the incident two weeks prior.  I got there right before the start and when I saw this fellow seated in the meeting I genuinely felt happy to see him.  I even smiled in his direction and waved, “Hi!”  It didn’t look like he saw me but as I walked to my seat I was amazed.  I couldn’t believe it.  This wasn’t a forced feeling of acceptance; I had no animosity in my heart at all.  It was incredible and that alone would have been wonderful if that were all that happened but there was more to follow.  When the meeting ended and I was milling around saying my “Good-bye’s” this guy, who just two weeks earlier was ready to tear my head off walked right up to me.  He was smiling with his arms outstretched as if to give me a big hug and said, “Darrell, I’m sorry about last week, man.”  Before I could finish saying, “It’s OK man, we’re all learning.”  “I know, but I was too aggressive and it was wrong.  Are we OK?”  I smiled at him, shook hands, and said, “Yes we are.” 

No matter how many times I experience the incredibly positive outcomes that occur when I comply with the laws of spirit; my initial impulse is always to do the contrary.  Thank God, that at least I am aware that these principles exist and that more often than not I’m willing to surrender to love than to fight my way through fear.

6 Comments
Shawna
9/6/2011 08:08:20 am

Absolutely awesome Darrell! Thanks for sharing and inspiring us all! Sending you love!!!

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Sharlene Sheppard
9/6/2011 08:32:06 am

Wow, great story
thanks foe sharing it :)

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Yaiza link
9/6/2011 11:44:12 am

Darrel, is so perfect how the universe works! Your telling of this experience is coming to me with perfect timing. I need ammunition for this one, and your story is very inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing it.

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Teresa Conrow
9/6/2011 12:04:37 pm

Hi Darryl,
Beautiful story. So true to experience. I'm curious about the group, sounds like it is good.
All the best,
Teresa (partner of Leebs)

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Pol link
9/6/2011 01:12:47 pm

Love it! Perfect... And a wonderful reminder of the power of loving, positive intention and practice. Thanks brother and much light to you and your new friend at your Monday evening gatherings...

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Sharon Faber
9/7/2011 01:00:02 am

Darrell: I love this story. I got a phone call in the middle and couldn't wait to get back to see how you handled it. You did good as always. Love You.

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